May the words of my mouth and the meditations of our hearts be pleasing to you, oh God our rock and redeemer. Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
Are you ready to write your letter? What letter you might ask, a very special one usually sent in December. Often written and sent by children. In case you want to send this letter, here are some guidelines or things to include:
Start with a Greeting: Begin your letter with "Dear Santa,"
Remind Santa who you are
Share How You've Been: Be honest about whether you've been naughty or nice. Santa knows! You can say something like, "I've tried really hard to be good this year." or "I've had a few times where I could have been better."
Make a Wish List: Be specific about what you want for Christmas. You can list toys, games, books, or other items. Be sure to include the names of things you want, like "a Barbie Dreamhouse" or "a new set of LEGOs."
Say Thank You: Don't forget to thank Santa for the gifts he brought last year and for all the joy he brings to Christmas.
Include a Closing: You can end your letter with "Love” and your name
Maybe you are smiling right now thinking about a child you love writing a letter like this. Perhaps you remember writing one yourself when you were younger.
The purpose of the letter is to ask for what one wants, what the author of the letter desires most. To sweeten the request the author mentions their behavior, trying to justify why they should receive the stuff they have requested or asked for.
Surely since they have asked with a genuine plea and have tried to show that they are worthy and deserving of receiving what has been requested, it will come to pass.
Today our Gospel reading is about prayer. Before we focus on Jesus and his teaching on prayer, let’s look at that letter once again.
Start with a Greeting: Begin your letter with "Dear Lord, or Lord God,"
Remind God who you are
Tell God how you have been, sorry for your sins or failures
Promise God that you try harder to follow the commandment, that you will be good and faithful to the Gospel of Jesus.
Then start asking for what you needs are: healing for illness for yourself or a loved one, help with a difficult situation or person, financial help, patience with stupid people, and so on
Be specific for what you want and then make sure you once again promise to do better in your life (maybe this will help you get what you’ve been asking for in your letter)
Say Thank You: Don't forget to thank God for the gifts God has bestowed on you. (This is good insurance just in case you might need it)
Include a Closing: You can end your letter with "Love, Amen.”
Does this letter/prayer outline sound familiar? Perhaps more familiar than we like to admit. We need not despair if that prayer/letter hits close to home.
Today the disciples asked Jesus to teach them to pray. It seems that they too, had trouble knowing how to pray. Jesus taught them:
God is Holy, Holy is God’s Name
God’s Kingdom comes to fruition through the grace of the Holy Spirit and faithful people
God empowers faithful ones to bring about the goodness of God on earth.
God will provide whatever is needed daily, one need not worry about tomorrow.
Forgiveness is a gift we don’t deserve but are given anyway and we are to extend that most gracious gift of forgiveness to others
God is ever present and will strengthen us against all things not in accordance with God’s blessings
Finally we ask God to continue to rescue us from ourselves, from the evil that surrounds us and to preserve us for everlasting life
These petitions or guidelines for what a pleasing prayer to God should include has lovingly been known as the Our Father prayer, or the prayer that Jesus taught us. When pressed by his disciples to teach them to pray, Jesus also said.
“So I say to you, Ask, and it will be given to you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. “
It would be so much easier to take these words of Jesus at face value if it weren’t for all those prayers in our lives that went unanswered. For the times I sought, knocked or asked and nothing came of it.
That’s not to say that some of my prayers never were answered for they were. I’ve had some of my prayers answered as I’m sure you have as well. But what about the times that the prayers were not answered, What then?
I prayed for a healing miracle with all my might for healing for my daughter who was diagnosed with stage four metastasis breast cancer at age 27. She died 15 months later. Or two years before when my husband was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. I prayed for healing for him. I He died a year and a week later.
What about you? Have you ever prayed in traumatic situations, only to have inevitable happen? I don’t know why some prayers seem to be answered and others don’t seem to be.
I can’t answer that question nor do I have any good answers to why this happens but here are some really bad reasons that I’ve heard for unanswered prayer:
You didn’t pray hard enough
You don’t have enough faith
You were asking for the wrong thing
It’s a mystery and someday we’ll understand
Everything happens for a reason
Something better is coming
Sometimes God says no (the one I heard most often as a child)
God is testing you
I’m sure you can add a few more “comforting” words as to why your prayer went unheeded. Rest assured however that God is still present in your anguish.
A wonderful pastoral friend of mine, Rev. Mike Marsh asks,
“Who taught you to pray and what were you taught? Somewhere along the way I got the idea that if I bowed my head, closed my eyes, clasped my hands, was good and well behaved, believed with all my heart, and told God what I wanted or needed I would get it. Any of that sound familiar? I suspect many of us were taught or have lived with some version of that as our understanding of prayer.”
Sort of sounds like our letter to Santa Claus God, doesn’t it?
Or as Rev. Marsh said,
“Sometimes I think of prayer with a Coke machine theology. Put in your coins of faith and good behavior, make a selection, and get what you want. I like the Coke machine theology. I like it a lot. It’s reassuring. It makes sense and it’s predictable.
It works great until it doesn’t, until the machine gives you a Dr. Pepper when you want a Coke, or worse yet, steals your money. Then what do we do? Kick the machine? Put in more money and push the button harder? Walk away vowing to never drink another Coke? God is not and never was a divine Coke machine. And prayer is not a transaction between us and God.”
When Jesus said to ask, search and knock I don’t think he meant it as literal means to an end. That God would fulfill all our wants upon demand.
Jesus' message is all about relationship, relationship with God, the coming of the kingdom and love. We are to be persistent in our seeking and living our lives in holiness as God is holy.
By doing so we give credence to God’s presence in the world, helping to bring about heaven on earth, (God’s Kingdom), freely receiving and giving forgiveness, and living each day without worry or distress. Isn’t this the heart and soul of the Lord’s Prayer?
Have you ever thought or considered that the words we pray in the Our Father are the words that Jesus prays for us? Jesus , always the teacher, always the model for holistic, holy living has shown the way.
Jesus reminds us that prayer is more about what we do than what God does. Our words and actions offered in response to the cares of the world become our truest form of prayer.
It is best to think of prayer not as asking God to do things for us in the world but that we should stay open to the future graces coming to us.
All the promises of the Our Father, the coming of God’s kingdom, the coming of daily sustenance, the coming of forgiveness for ourselves and those we forgive and the coming of eternal life come about when we become what we pray.
Please stay open to the future because the future speaks of hope. Hebrews 11:1, which reads, "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.".
Hope is our lifeline, even when things go badly, and we say, we haven’t got a prayer, then we still have hope. Hope means we do not give up when the ground under our feet is shifting sands. Or when our lives start to fall apart and we are overwhelmed and feel that all is lost, hope still remains.
Prayer keeps us from losing our way when we think the world is closing in on us. Prayer makes the possibility of something new coming to pass, the chance that something different and unexpected will transform the current reality into something else.
Prayer is a doorway into a new and different way of living. It can’t undo the past or become an escape hatch from life or the maladies of life that may befall us. But prayer keeps us open to the future.
Maybe that is what Jesus meant when he encouraged us to ask. Ask what is important in your life, your spiritual life. Ask, then listen to what the response is.
Quit talking, quit asking. Be silent, let God get a word in edge wise. When you have been quiet and believe you have found an answer then seek it out. Let nothing get in your way or delay your search.
And when your search takes you to the entryway, knock on the door. Remember the handle of the doorway is only on the outside, your side of the door. Grab the knob with all your gusto, open the door and go in. A marvelous adventure awaits you, a future full of hope.
Blessings on your day.
Notes: Preached (Delivered) July 27, 2025 at Trinity Lutheran Church, Falun Wisconsin and Bethany Lutheran Church, Grantsburg Wisconsin
Seventh Sunday after Pentecost, Year C
Readings: Genesis 18:20-32, Psalm 138 Colossians 2:6-19 Luke 11:1-13
Quotes from https://interpretingthesilence.com Reverend Mike Marsh